I am so grateful for Father Roderick Strange’s willingness to do an e-interview with me about the book Newman 101 and Newman’s upcoming canonization.
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I am so grateful for Father Roderick Strange’s willingness to do an e-interview with me about the book Newman 101 and Newman’s upcoming canonization.
The best preparation for loving the world at large, and loving it duly and wisely, is to cultivate an intimate friendship and affection towards those who are immediately about us.”—Newman, Parochial and plain sermons
Here is my review of Newman 101 and other Newman books. This will appear in this weekend’s print Catholic Post. I invite your comments, and check back all month for lots of Newman links and other discussion, including an exclusive Q&A with Newman 101 author Roderick Strange.
I haven’t even finished this article from the New York Times about scientists who left their cellphones and Internet behind for a week, and I want to turn off everything and go off for a week into the wilderness.
I’ve thought a lot about the relationship we all have with being “plugged in” after I wrote about Nicholas Carr’s new book, “The Shallows” on what the Internet is doing to our brain.
I think rather than continue to do “research” on what’s best, I’m formulating an idea of a plan to have certain times that are Internet-free. That already happens for me pretty naturally with taking care of a household and three busy children. But I do find my checking e-mail or just clicking around on the Internet to be seeping into lots of time that could be spent more interestingly. Do you have a time or day when you do not connect with the world in any way? What do you do with that time?
First of all, Happy Feast of the Assumption! What a great mid-summer feast. I have very specific childhood memories of being on vacation with our family at Wildwood, NJ, and the priest blessing the ocean waves on this day. I always want to be at the beach on this day, but it rarely happens. Maybe next year?
This spring, as I was preparing to take on this role of book page editor and blogger for the Catholic Post, I had a number of discussions with my editor Tom Dermody, about future books to feature.
Fr. Leo’s ministry Grace Before Meals is all about gathering families around the dinner table for good food and good conversation, in order to foster the great connections that the domestic Church that is the family.
But I had an interesting discussion some weeks back with a group of moms about if the “family dinner” was so important. One mom argued that other mealtimes, like breakfast, could be a time to gather, and pegging it to dinner was too restrictive. Another mom argued that perhaps even mealtime was not necessary for connection when there are other opportunities for connection as a family, and that “forcing” everyone to participate in family mealtimes could be counterproductive. It made for an interesting conversation.
I do think there is something important about eating together that is unique in a family’s experience. But I also know some people don’t have great memories of family mealtimes. Also, there can be different seasons of life, such as busy sport or work schedules and young children just learning table manners, that can make family mealtimes a challenge at best.
As I wrote in my review of Fr. Leo’s book, our family’s mealtimes often break some of the common “rules” for dinner time. I was partially joking, of course, because there are no rules in Canon Law for how mealtimes should look.
But we do try to make an effort to have family mealtimes and interesting conversations to go along with those, and I find that as our children get older both the discussions and the food get more interesting. That keeps us committed to trying to make those times a priority, even as schedules get busier.
What are some of your family meal rules? Any suggestions for