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A Month of Food for Thought: Your Family’s Favorite Grace Before Meals?

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This month’s theme at the Catholic Post Book Group is food, since the reviewed book for this month is cooking priest Father Leo Patalinghug’s new edition of Grace Before Meals, a cookbook that encourages family mealtimes for both spiritual and physical reasons.  I’m very enthusiastic about this book, and I have Fr. Leo’s famous Throwdown-winning fajita recipe  ready to try at our house sometime this month.  My review will post tomorrow, and also appear in in the print Catholic Post this weekend.

What I hope to do this month is share and learn ideas about food & mealtimes, and how that can enrich family life and family spirituality.  I hope you’ll join in and share!

First up:  what is your family’s favorite grace?  At our house we use the standard, “Bless us O Lord and these thy gifts which we are about to receive from thy bounty through Christ our Lord, Amen.”  Occasionally (or not so occasionally, for breakfast and lunch),  we are saying, “which we are receiving from thy bounty” when we forget to say grace before meals.  How about at your house?

First, What are You Reading? Volume 1, August 2010

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Without further ado, here are the questions and my answers for this first volume of “First, What are You Reading?”

If you want to read about my thinking for this new feature, read my previous post here.

First, what are you reading?

What do you like best about it?
Too often we think that we have to make big grand changes in life to really make a difference, but this book argues persuasively that small changes can make a huge difference in business, relationships, and health. 
Most fascinating in this book was learning that self-control is finite.  The authors quote numerous studies to show that once you “use up” your self-control resisting, say, chocolate chip cookies, you are less likely to persist in say, writing your next column, instead of checking Facebook or watching Gilligan’s Island episodes with your kids. (Not that I have any experience with either of those situations, LOL).
The authors show that if you can direct the rider (the self-control), motivate the elephant (the passions), and shape the path (control the environment), change becomes much easier.
What do you like least about it?
Not much.  It’s really that good. 
One funny story:  The book has exhaustive chapter notes at the back that are actually quite fascinating and informative.  One of the chapter notes recommends the book, “Divorce Busters” as a book anyone should read to strengthen relationships.  I immediately put it on hold online to arrive at our local library, and when it arrived it raised some eyebrows from the excellent library ladies who know me so well at our small library.
What is next on your list to read?
The Hunger Games and Catching Fire by Suzanne Collins.  I’ve seen several Facebook friends recommend this young adult  (YA) series, and so I’m planning to dive in.  It looks like not my kind of YA fiction, but I’m keeping an open mind.
I am also working my way through quite a few books about and by Cardinal John Henry Newman, as one of those books will be our September selection at the Catholic Post Book Group, since he will be beatified in September.
If you are a blogger, please consider using the Mr. Linky post at the bottom.  Don’t forget to link back to here so others visiting your blog can also join in the fun!
If you are not a blogger, please take a moment to leave a comment and share what you are reading—even just the title and author is fine, though your one or more sentence review would be great.

Here are the four questions again.  You can answer any or all:
First, what are you reading?
What do you like best about it?
What do you like least about it?
What is next on your list to read?

If you are a blogger, please consider using the Mr. Linky post at the bottom.  Don’t forget to link back to here so others visiting your blog can also join in the fun!
If you are not a blogger, please take a moment to leave a comment and share what you are reading—even just the title and author is fine, though your one or more sentence review would be great.

 

 

I look forward to hearing about your “reads.”

Upcoming New Feature for the First of Each Month: First, What are You Reading?

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On the first of every month, I want to encourage all us readers and/or reader/bloggers out there to share a little about what you have been reading.  I love getting book suggestions from others.  My library hold list and Amazon wish list grow every time I visit someone’s blog who recommends a book.
This is not just for Catholic books or Catholic readers, but truly, catholic (as in universal/everyone) readers and books.  So get creative!
I named it as I did because this is my default question when getting to know someone or to find out what a friend is up to lately, mind-wise.  “What are you reading these days?”  To me, it’s the easiest way to spark a conversation or find out more about someone I think I might know well.
You’ll see in my first post that I’ve only focused on one book, although like many readers, I have quite a few books going.  Also, I read this book earlier this summer, but I found so many good take-away points from it.  You may want to focus on one too, but by all means write about several if that suits your writing style or purpose.
Also, for the first month, I’ve kept my answers relatively short.  You may want to write longer about a book you love, or just give some quick responses.  It’s all up to you.

Here are the questions that will be asked of you every “first” of the month:
First, what are you reading?
What do you like best about it?
What do you like least about it?
What is next on your list to read?

When you do decide to write on your blog about what you are reading, there will be a Mr. Linky to link back to this blog, so everyone can share together.  If you’re not a blogger, you can leave a comment in the “First, What Are You Reading”post on August 1. 
I hope to see you there!

Did you know the Wardrobe Into Narnia is in Illinois?

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(Note:  I had intended to post today a compilation of other books along the lines of Mary Eberstadt’s The Loser Letters, but this post will have to wait for later, so I can report about finding here in Illinois a great gem of a museum featuring C.S. Lewis, whose Screwtape Letters inspired this genre of epistolary fiction.)


Did you know the wardrobe into Narnia is in Illinois?


I didn’t, until my husband took our family on a mid-summer trip to Chicagoland, one of his goals to show us a little-known center at Wheaton College.  A friend had told him that C.S. Lewis’ desk and other article belonging to a group of English authors, and he thought this would be a good chance to see the Center.

Of course, we are a huge C.S. Lewis family, having read Narnia multiple times as a family and seen the movies.  We are anxiously awaiting the release of The Voyage of the Dawn Treader December 10, and hoping it will be more true to the book than was Prince Caspian.   My husband is a particular fan of G.K. Chesterton, and I have loved Tolkien since I was a teenager.  

But we weren’t really sure what to expect at the  Marion E. Wade Center at Wheaton College.  

I am happy to report that it is really worth a visit for older children and adults, if just to see the famous wardrobe.



The photo is not the best, flash photography not being allowed.    The wardrobe was handmade and carved by C.S. Lewis’ grandfather, and is the wardrobe that inspired him in portions of writing The Chronicles of Narnia.  It was bought by the Wade Center at auction in 1973 and has been there ever since.

The Center is devoted to the writings of seven English authors:   Owen Barfield, G.K. Chesterton, C.S. Lewis, George MacDonald, Dorothy Sayers, J.R.R. Tolkein, and Charles Williams.  I know and have read all the authors except for Barfield and Williams, and am very happy to discover a few new authors I hope to enjoy.

The center is a small one-room museum (and much larger reading center with much scholarship and papers of the authors).  The museum has information and artifacts from all seven authors.  Most prominent are books and a desk of J.R.R. Tolkein, where he wrote The Hobbit and parts of the Lord of the Rings Trilogy; C.S. Lewis’ desk; and the famous wardrobe.

Here is the coolest thing about the wardrobe:  it opens.  My children, who are not particularly adventurous, could not resist trying to open the wardrobe (gently of course!), while my husband and I made jokes about, “Where are the parents of those children trying to get into the wardrobe?”



Inside the wardrobe, as you can see, are fur and other winter coats, and a small sign that reads something along the lines of, “The Wade Center is not responsible for any occurrences if you enter the wardrobe.”  


We spent a nice hour or reading about the authors, seeing the displays, including several cases of extremely interesting props from the Disney Narnia movies.  We bought quite a few postcards, notecards and other items from the small giftshop.  All in all, a nice visit and a worthwhile excursion.

Why I Spent Time Surfing the Internet and Checking Facebook Instead of Writing This…

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I’ve been thinking about writing about Nicholas Carr’s intriguing new book, The Shallows: What the Internet Is Doing to Our Brains for some time, especially after reading David Brooks’ excellent column referencing the book, which nicely summed up my opinion, too, of the book and what it says about the future of human intelligence.  But, as described in the book about virtually every other connected citizen of the universe, I’ve been too easily distracted in recent days from the usual Internet distractions–e-mail, blogs, Facebook.


In defense of myself, I will say that I’ve had very few largish chunks of time recently for sustained writing or doing things that might take more of my intellectual energy.  And I will say even when I have had a little time, it’s far easier to check in quickly with friends or plan ahead on my calendar.  But I will say that I have made time for plenty of offline reading, as I infinitely prefer real physical books to anything online.


As I mentioned when  I interviewed author Mary Eberstadt, I first read some of The Loser Letters at National Review online, where some were first published, but I found it much more satisfying to read as the physical book, both because of the story line, but also because I wouldn’t be distracted as I am when online to click around.


I personally have resisted getting an e-reader like a Kindle or Nook, and after reading The Shallows, I think I will stick with my resolution for now.   I do have the free Kindle App on my iPhone, but I find it only useful for reading aloud (either to someone else or for someone, usually one of my children, to read to the rest of the family).

In The Shallows,  Carr argues persuasively that, “with the exception of alphabets and number systems, the Net may well be the single most powerful mind-alterning technology that has ever come into to general use.  At the very least, it’s the most powerful that has come along since the book.”

Carr writes, “In the choices we have made, consciously or not, about how we use our computers, we have rejected the intellectual tradition of solitary, single-minded concentration, the ethic that the book bestowed on us.”

I somewhat disagree with the notion of books being “solitary” because usually the first thing I do when I am in the midst of, or recently finished a great book, whether fiction or non-fiction, is tell someone about it.  I’ll strike up a conversation with an acquaintance at church or in the grocery store, I’ll bring it to book groups (and even start book groups specifically to talk about a book).  I consider my role here at the Catholic Post Book Group an incredibly fortunate way for me to combine my love of reading (real, print books) and my love of technology and connecting with friends and others via the Internet.   But I was very troubled by the science Carr cites to show that the Internet is making our brains more distractable, and not in a good way.


In May, blogger Melissa Wiley started an interesting discussion about Carr’s book (which prompted me to become the first at our library to reserve the book!), and asked the question, “Have you noticed a difference in your powers of concentration or memory?”


David Brooks’ column, though, hits another important point, which is how the Internet’s vast information does not help one have literacy about judging the worth of the information: 

“The Internet-versus-books debate is conducted on the supposition that the medium is the message,” writes Brooks.  “But sometimes the medium is just the medium. What matters is the way people think about themselves while engaged in the two activities. A person who becomes a citizen of the literary world enters a hierarchical universe. There are classic works of literature at the top and beach reading at the bottom.”

Brooks concludes,  “It could be that the real debate will not be books versus the Internet but how to build an Internet counterculture that will better attract people to serious learning.”



Thoughts?  Do you prefer a real book or reading online?  I wonder if there is a generational difference here?   Share your thoughts (and your approximate generation, if you like!

Great Catholic Humor Blog: Interview with "The Ironic Catholic"

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One of my favorite go-to sites for laugh-out-loud humor, is The Ironic Catholic.  I had the opportunity to e-interview Susan, aka “The Ironic Catholic,” and I’m happy to share it and her great Catholic humor blog with everyone at the Catholic Post Book Group.

I hope you’ll get a chance to check out http://www.ironiccatholic.com/. Yesterday’s post sounds like something I have considered on numerous occasions.


Here are some of my favorites, but there is a link on the sidebar of some of her best pieces:




Her occasional series, “Signs You’ve Studied Theology Too Long,” pairing food dishes with saints and theologians. 

Her quotes of the day, about once a week, are great.  Here’s one that makes you think, “Did he really say that?” (he did).

The Ironic Catholic also links to some hilarious other blogs and sites for Christian humor. Our family couldn’t stop laughing at this caption contest and this great Ash Wednesday video.


Here’s my interview with The Ironic Catholic. Enjoy!


Why did you start the blog?

It really was a whim.  I was poking around a now defunct Catholic humor blog called Catholicnews.org and thought “I could do this.”  We don’t watch TV and my husband works evenings, so it seemed like a good way to relieve stress and have fun after my kids went to sleep.  What can I say–some people scrapbook, I do an Onion-style humor blog.


Can you tell us a little bit about yourself?

I like to be a woman of mystery on the blog and go by the “pen name”–The Ironic Catholic–but honestly, the mystery may be more fascinating than the reality.  I teach systematic theology at a small Catholic university in the upper midwest, and I am married to a great man, a stay at home dad and free lance writer, with whom I parent four kids 10 and under.  I’m involved in our local parish and the Catholic Worker community in our town, and training to be a spiritual director.  The other day I thought “I’m an academic theological wife and mother who moonlights as a humorist.  It sounds like the beginning of a really bad joke…A academic theological wife, mother and humorist walked into a bar….”


It’s obvious you consider humor important in the life of Catholics.  Can you explain that a little bit?

Right, the motto of the blog for a while was “humor is our second greatest strength.”  I think the ability to laugh at ourselves is huge in the Christian life.  There’s a kind of laughter that is mean-spirited, taking others down, and I don’t endorse that–but the ability to laugh at ourselves keeps us humble better than anything else.  I suppose that’s the deep reason behind the humor blogging.
In my case, I’m trying to do a bit of cultural critique with some of the humor pieces as well, and as much as Catholics can do that well, I think it has the potential to open eyes and convert hearts  more than “the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth”–people warm up to ideas presented in good cheer and humor; it’s a powerful tool.  But frankly, a lot of the humor really is just for fun.  A humorist trying to educate and criticize all the time is like your Great uncle Louie buying the kids brussel sprouts instead of candy for Christmas.  It’s OK to laugh.  I’m pretty sure Jesus must have.


Where do you get your material?  In particular, the quotes from saints and others are really fascinating.


I have no idea where the written satire pieces come from, besides the odd neighborhood of my head.  My friends in grad school used to say I had a sense of humor that was understood by about 25 people (usually after I made some subtle joke about Karl Rahner or some such).  With the wide reach of the internet, I now have an audience of 30.  (See, that was that self-deprecating humor there?)

The quotes from the saints and such–I love the saints and read them a lot, but google search has admittedly come in play!


You’ve got a new book out: Dear Communion of Saints (Readers can find out about getting the book here.  Tell us a little bit about it, and why you decided to write it.


Dear Communion of Saints is a small book, a compilation of pieces I wrote for the blog a while back with new material.  The idea is to take newspaper advice columns and turn them on their head–instead of Dear Abby, ask the saints instead.  And they respond to our foolish questions, with tough love, insight and humor.  And the advice questions are indeed foolish, but honestly, aren’t we all foolish sometimes? Half the spiritual battle may be recognizing our own foolishness, and the saints can do that with clarity and love, because they are so much more our friends than Dear Abby is.  I love the saints, I love the faith, I love teaching, and I love good humor–and I got to address all those things with this book.