Nancy Piccione

As I think you’ll be able to tell from this month, fiction is my passion and first love when it comes to reading.  I’m a Catholic reader, in that I am a Catholic and love Catholic fiction, old and new, but I’m also a catholic reader in that I read and enjoy lots of different kinds of fiction.

My biggest problem was trying to figure out how to narrow things down here.  Specifically I want to organize and structure a month of talking about books from a Catholic and a catholic perspective, and inspiring discussion about these topics.

Here’s what I’ve come up with, loosely based on the  days of the week:

Teen Tuesday:  “Kitlit” or children’s literature, is one of my passions, both because I have children, but also because in a busy lifestyle, children’s and young adult fiction can be less demanding and just plain more fun than the adult stuff.  Here I plan to feature great young adult fiction that teens and adults can enjoy.

Words Wednesday:  This day I hope to share some great “quotes” from Catholic (and catholic) poetry and fiction, and invite you to do the same.

Family-Friendly Friday:  This day we’ll talk about books that the whole family can enjoy.  Here is also where we’ll share great ideas for family summer travel, like audiobook versions of great novels.

Weekend Review:  On Saturday and/or Sunday, I’ll post a review of a great Catholic novel and invite your comments.  I hope we can all inspire each other to discover new authors and re-discover worthy classics, whether from last decade or several centuries back.

Sprinkled occasionally through the month (Mondays or Thursdays perhaps?  those days is looking a little lonely right now)  will be ideas and links about reading–how do we approach reading as Catholics?  Does the author’s life have any impact on his/her fiction?  And should that influence how we read a work?

As always, I invite your comments and ideas.

The final chapter of The Handbook for Catholic Moms is full of great ideas for promoting a Catholic culture in one’s home.

This is actually a very timely discussion among my friends.  I’m on an e-group for Catholic moms, and one new Catholic asked how we as moms live out a Catholic culture in our homes.  There were quite a few good answers of doing Mass readings, praying with children, and others ideas to promote a family culture that is Catholic and joyful.

For some reason, the first thing that I remember when I heard the question about making a Catholic culture in the family is praying the Hail Mary when an ambulance passes–I know many families do this.  Some people might consider that “Catholic lite” or only culturally Catholic instead of truly Catholic, but really, helping kids to pray for others and think of people they don’t know is helpful.  Once we were in a big city and the kids were non-stop praying Hail Marys, until my husband and I told our children that most of the sirens were police directing traffic, and it was okay to say one Hail Mary for all the intentions and wait until we were back in our small community to resume the practice.

More seriously, the one practice I think is most successful in our family is “the little blessing,” something we have done in our family for years.

Many years ago, my husband attended a retreat at a Virginia monastery where the monk leading the retreat suggested parents bless one another and their children with  the sign of the cross each day or night, with the words, “The Lord bless you and keep you.”  The monk pointed out that there are times in life when spouses may be angry with each other, or teen children may pull away from physical signs of affection, but the sign of the cross helps bond families with the sign of the Savior.

I can think of many nights when I have been frustrated with one of my children (or my husband!), and they with me, but we still give the little blessing.  The very act of tracing the sign of the cross on the forehead seems to soften the frustration and remind us we do love each other, for both the giver and the receiver.

And now our children bless us, as well.  Often one of the children will bless us three times, saying, “Three for the Trinity.”  It has become a sacred time for our family, and it only takes a moment.

I vividly remember the first time my husband told me about “the little blessing,” when we were dating, never realizing that all these years later we would still have the “little blessing” for one another and our children, every single night.  Our family spiritual life has changed and grown (and sometimes shrunk) over the years, and devotions have come and gone–I can think of many that have been helpful as times goes by–but “the little blessing” has been a constant.

What are the ways your family lives a Catholic culture?

One great feature of The Handbook for Catholic Moms is a section of favorite saints for moms, where moms and others give suggestions of a Catholic “communion of saints for moms.”  I would have to say two of my favorites are St. Anne, the grandmother of Jesus, and St. Gianna Beretta Molla.

Who are some of your favorite “saints for moms”?  Why?

The Handbook for Catholic Moms has a section about creativity and helping nurture our mind by having creative pursuits that we turn to for both self-improvement and for relaxation.

I find that writing can be very creative for me, but not particularly relaxing (except when I am finished!).   I also enjoy handcrafts such as knitting, and also trying out new recipes.  I found working out and trying several different recipes from the book and website Artisan Bread in 5 Minutes a Day, because the recipes are more foolproof than most.  Even with the help of this excellent technique, I still find reliably good bread an elusive goal.  Any suggestions out there for how I can get a loaf of bread to turn out well every single time?

What do you do to nurture your creative side?

We interrupt the great discussion of moms and those who love them to seek suggestions for fiction.

June will be “summer fiction month” at the Catholic Post Book Group, and I’ve got a long list of reviews started of both adult and kids fiction, but I’m looking for more suggestions.  I have a lot of great Catholic authors and Catholic-themed novels, but I’d love some input of some undiscovered authors or books that I can feature here.  I’ve got both new fiction and classics.

What are some of your favorites?

Just a note: when I say Catholic, I mean that in both senses–Catholic and catholic (as in universal).  Some fiction may not seem Catholic, but can address Catholic themes, or catholic themes.  Know what I mean?  I’ll try to expand on that more next month.

Tomorrow, back to more questions about motherhood!

The Mind section of The Handbook for Catholic Moms has a chapter on financial stewardship, since many moms are the “family bankers” of their families.  I especially like Catholic financial guru Phil Lenehan’s sidebar advice for moms to be good financial stewards for their families.